Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Meri updates--8.5 months

Happy December! :) Ian started the second round of his paternity leave on Friday, and after a brief bout of stomach illness, we're back in business and are settling into a nice new routine of both of us being home. This is a big relief, because a month or so ago, it started hitting Meri that her Papa was leaving for the day, and she would scream and run (crawl-run) to the door every time he left. Too heartbreaking. It's very nice knowing that he'll be home from now until her birthday--provided we don't move, which is always on the table...


Meri is now 8.5 months old, and is getting more and more interactive, so I wanted to share her developments and personality with everyone, and keep a record of it for her later. 


On November 18 (her 8-month birthday), she perfected the art of standing on her own without any support, from a squatting position. Now she loves doing this, and will do it whenever she gets the chance. At first she was so excited, she even woke up at night to do it. Waking up to see a baby wobbly looming over you like a bear is kind of terrifying :p
Here's the girl in action:


Around the same time, or maybe a little before, she started walking by holding onto furniture or our hands. And just recently, she's gotten to where she'll walk by pushing toys around. Today, she was walking around by pushing her little potty across the floor. I wish I had a video... :)


Speaking of her potty, our elimination communication is still improving by the day :) She's getting all her poos in the potty, and a lot of pees (She's still too busy to interrupt her playtime to pee, but since I don't have to clean up poopy diapers, I'm not complaining :p) 


We're still trying to teach her some signs, but it's even more interesting and exciting seeing her initiate her own language with us. When she needs to potty, she'll go up to the potty, pick up the bowl, and bang it on the ground. She also loves playing in the bath, so when she wants to do that, she'll throw a toy into the tub and look up at me. Likewise, when she wants out of the tub, she'll throw a toy overboard and look from it to me expectantly. 


On November 23, she got her first haircut. Her bangs had been getting in her eyes, so we wanted to trim them. We were so worried about not cutting her, though, that we didn't even think about cutting them evenly until after the fact, so she now has a very...avant-garde haircut:        :p






On Thanksgiving, she even got her first boyfriend! :-0 At our Mother Goose library time, a new little boy, almost 2 years old, showed up. Overlooking everyone else in the room,, he made a bee-line for Meri, embraced her, and planted a big kiss on her cheek. He continued to stay near her, and a couple minutes later, he came and picked her up and said, "she's mine" in Spanish (at first I thought it was French, until I realized his mom was speaking Spanish). For the rest of the hour, he couldn't take his eyes off of her. He squeezed her and kissed her several more times; it was pretty amazing, like he had known her from another life or something. For her part, Meri was demure about the whole thing :p

Then the next week, he did the same thing, but maybe 10 times rowdier. He walked up to her immediately, grabbed her, and leaned in for a kiss on the mouth! All the moms' mouths were gaping--it was kind of embarrassing! He kept coming up to her and hugging her, and whenever I was holding her, he would slap my hands away so he could hold her. I'm not really sure what to make of all this, but he seemed so earnestly in love with her that it was too sweet to stop him.


Some other new stuff: She's learning to give high fives, which is super cute. She won't settle for just one, though. After the first one, she wants to keep slapping my hand :) She's been high-fiving, among other tasks, with her left hand, so it's likely she's a southpaw like her Gigi.


I can't pinpoint when this started ,but she's started saying Mama. She often adds several more "ma's" to the end to make it even more legit.  (She says Papa, or Baba, too sometimes, but seemingly at random :p). 


She loooooooves sharing, especially food. Her one condition, though, is that you put whatever she gives you into your mouth; otherwise she demands it back. She'll hand her blocks or food to me and wait for me to put it into my mouth, and then she'll giggle and try to dig it out. :p Digging it out is less successful when she gives something to Scout to eat, but she still thinks it's hilarious :p


Light switches: they make the lights turn on and off! This was a very exciting discovery, and she loves wielding the power to summon or banish light :D


She's also starting to like playing with her toys more (instead of just chewing on them, which is how she used to play with toys). She'll stack blocks, put things into other things, take things out of things, rummage around with various toys, press buttons, and interact with these sensory blocks that we have, especially the ones with colored lenses that make the room look blue or red. She also gets the biggest thrill out of climbing. She can climb on our couch by herself, and she frequently does. She's even learning to climb down feet-first, thank God :p Boxes are also really fun to climb around in. 


She still kind of likes peek-a-boo, but not as much. It used to be that she would crawl out into the hallway, and we could get her to come back by calling out, "Where's Meridian?!" and then yelling "Peek-a-boo!" when she came back, to her giggling delight....but she caught on that that was our lazy way of not having to chase her, so that no longer works :p


We don't have a high chair for her, so we all eat together. A free-range baby during mealtime means that she grabs whatever she wants from us, so she generally shares whatever we're eating. We try to eat low-salt, healthy foods because of this, so it's making us a lot healthier. :)


Besides mama milk, it seems like her current favorite food is apple. She just holds a whole apple and bites out chunks with her two little teeth; I think it feels good on her teething gums. She also really seems to like tofu, rice, beans, any kind of soup, kombucha, lentils.....I'll probably think of more later--like I said, she eats whatever we eat, so it's hard to narrow down favorites :p


Here's her eating an apple and being adorable: 



I'll end with a few pics from our photo shoot with my friend, Lili. We didn't get any posed shots, really--Lili instead followed Meri wherever she wanted to go, hence the toilet shots--because Meridian wasn't in a mood to be photographed, but I kind of like that that way the photos captured her independent spirit and strong will :) 



















 Oh yeah, she also thinks it's hilarious when I put that sock on my nose--shrug :p Other things she finds hilarious: Papa making monkey noises, Papa counting like Count Dracula, Scout doing anything...:p

Until next time!


Monday, October 24, 2011

Explosion of development!

 

Meridian turned 7 months old last week, and oh man, the past month has just been one milestone right after another--I can barely keep up with this baby! :p




At about 6.5 months, she learned this adorable game:

And she still loves to play peek-a-boo, with anything she can cover her face with.  Some variations: if we put something over our faces, and ask, "Where's Mama/Papa?", she'll tear off the cover and giggle. She also loves to cover and uncover Scout's face. I don't think you can tell in the video, but she gets so excited waiting to reveal herself, she'll jerk her legs around in anticipation :3

On September 21, she got in her first teeth. After months of painful gums, this little lady now has two adorable bottom front teeth to flash endearingly at everyone :) There are several more about to erupt, too!

On September 24, Meridian met her first baby, cousin Avery, and it was so sweet watching them clasping hands and exploring each other :) Here's a pic with her, Avery, and Aunt Kathy:


 That got me excited to have her meet other babies, so on September 29, we started going to a weekly Mother Goose Rhyme Time meeting at the library, and it's been a relief getting her out of the house--she gets soooo bored. There are 2 or 3 babies her age, and about 15 older or younger babies, so it's a nice mix. Of course, I've enjoyed having adult company, especially other moms to talk to. I'm still looking for other activities to get her involved in (I had planned on swimming lessons, but those were filled up within the first hour of registration, so maybe next session). I was getting worried that she'd learn all her social skills from playing with Scout, which probably wouldn't be ideal :p But, they are pretty cute together: 





On October 11, she took the leap from scooting around the floor to unmistakable crawling! She now crawls eeeeeverywhere, faster and faster every day! However, almost immediately after mastering crawling, she decided that wasn't good enough, so she has started trying to master walking. Even in my last post, in September, she was trying to walk, but now she's getting sturdier and steadier. It's really amazing to watch her go! Although I'm having to chase her around all the time, I'm so glad she's self-mobile (automobile? :p) now because she hated being carried around or stuck in one place all the time. 





There's more to say, but I'll just wrap up by saying we're loving our super-intelligent, smiling, laughing bug! Miss M is needing me, and I must go....

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Meri can stand now!

She is *all* about standing up! We give her our hands for balance, but all the work of standing is done by her.  She'll use anything to pull herself up (including my hair and Tooters's tail...)
Once she's up, she loves bending down to pick things up, and then standing back up again :) She's even started taking steps while balancing on our hands, or whatever she happens to be grabbing.

I haven't gotten this on video very much, because I'm trying to take fewer pics and vids (I know, you don't hear new mothers saying that very often :p), because I don't want to live these moments behind the camera! So I just have this one video (I can't quit completely ;)) of her standing up and being busy.

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Why I won't be able to sit still ever again

Meri has started doing this:

Is it just me, or does her back look super muscular? Must be all the yard work we make her do.


And in case anyone's wondering, we do dress her sometimes, and she does look adorable :p For example, today:

And here's a picture of her with Mr. Tooters. True to cat form, he has ulterior motives for befriending her--she's started using teething drops with catnip in them. I don't think she's offended, though :)





Saturday, August 20, 2011

Addendum to 5-month post

Here's a view of Ian's office from our front porch! Sometimes Meri and I sit on the porch and wait for him, and we can see him leave the building and walk up :)

I think I forgot to mention earlier that he still has 12 weeks of paternity leave left, and 3 weeks of vacation, so he'll be taking off from late December through her birthday on March 18, and maybe even longer if he uses vacation time. So we plan on traveling to Texas and Tennessee, working on our game, and just hanging out as a family! 

And here are some videos. We've shown them to some people, but if you haven't seen them yet, the first is of her laughing while we sing, and the second is the first time she tried drinking water in her sippy cup. 



Friday, August 19, 2011

5-month update, wherein I am chagrined for not posting in forever

I could pretend that I'll do better about updating this, but I know myself too well--frankly, I will probably only remember this blog and find the gumption to update approximately once every few months. :p  Meri turned 5 months old yesterday, and Ian is currently bouncing her to sleep, so I figure now is a good time to throw a ton of pics from the last 2 months on here. :)

Oh, speaking of bouncing Meri to sleep--ever since she was a couple months old, she has refused to sleep unless we bounce her to sleep, and then continue bouncing for awhile longer (unless she's so exhausted that she just passes out). So lately, our mattress has gotten so blown out from all the bouncing, that springs have begun to pop out, and we've resorted to taking the pliers to it to push in all the wayward springs, like a game of whack-a-mole. I only mention this because it's a glimpse of parenthood throwing weird things at us, and us flailing around trying to act like we're in control of our lives :p But seriously, we ordered a new mattress and it's on its way; don't worry :) Every day's an adventure, eh?

Anyway, we're still having a blast with Meridian! We can't walk down the street without everyone marveling at how adorable she is (This is forcing us to practice French!). She even reached out to give an old lady a hug one time, much to the lady's delight. :) She's just an unstoppable love bug. People are also amazed that she's only 5 months old, because she looks so mature. At her 4-month appointment, the doctor said she's as tall as a 6-month-old.

She's a great sleeper (once she gets to sleep, that is)--she sleeps from around 9 or 10 at night to 7 or 8 in the morning. She wakes to nurse during the night, but since she sleeps with us, it doesn't wake Ian up, and it's easy enough for me. :p We also don't have to use an alarm clock since Meri wakes us up way before Ian needs to go into work, by snuzzling and galumphing around. I have to say, this is a much sweeter way of waking up!

I don't think we've told everyone, but Ian went back to work in July, so I've been experiencing stay-at-home-motherhood, which is the best/hardest job imaginable, I think. :p She really keeps me on my toes! Since we moved closer to Ian's office, he's able to come home for lunch every day and has zero commute time, so all that family time has been really nice as we ease into him returning to work. He's really good about sharing baby responsibilities, too, so things are going pretty smoothly. I'm going to enroll us in some baby swimming classes, and maybe some baby groups at the Y, to keep her stimulated. Oh, and as a side note, Ian and I are collaborating on making a computer game, a first for us! I think we make a pretty good team, and having something non-baby-related to talk about keeps us sane. We'll send everyone a copy if anything becomes of it, but it's fun to make regardless :)

I should probably give an update about Meri's development, because I don't want to forget anything, and she's already growing and progressing so fast, it's crazy! So here are some highlights:

*She's been showing signs of teething since forever, but she still has no teeth. She likes teething rings, though.

*She used to be all about crawling, and she would love for us to put our hands on the soles of her feet so she could spring off them and "crawl."  But she suddenly became disinterested in that about 2 weeks ago, when she realized she could be using her energy to sit up instead. She'll lift her head up while she's lying down, like she's doing a crunch, and that's her signal that she wants me to help her sit up. So I'll hold out my fingers, she'll grab on, and then I'll help pull her up into a sitting position. She's able to sit and stay sitting with no assistance for about 30 seconds at a time! It's really adorable seeing her wobbling around trying to maintain balance :3

* She really likes clapping. We discovered that while singing "If You're Happy and You Know It" one day a couple weeks ago; she thinks it's hilarious. Now we try to clap to any beat we hear, and she's really into it. She also has a toy that plays "Old MacDonald Had a Farm," and I made the mistake of singing along with it once or twice. So now I'm obligated to do it every time, and I always end up running out of farm animals by the time she's bored pulling the string. :p

* Another favorite game is "Walk on Mama/Papa," where we hold her on our chests while lying down, and she'll walk and dance on us. I was playing this with her one day, and we were below the window unit AC, so she suddenly got a face-full of air while walking, and she was in love. (She's a Viking baby and loves the cold, like her Daddy). So now we hold her in front of the AC often so she can have the wind blowing in her face :)  But, I've learned that a diaper is necessary for this game (yeah, I don't always put her in a diaper :x)--after having my face peed on a couple times, I learned that being in front of the AC always makes her pee...

* She loves water faucets, and tearing paper! (I have to make sure she doesn't chew the paper, though).

* She prefers books to toys--I don't know why, but especially adult books. She's a miniature us, poor thing ;) She mostly likes flapping at the pages, but it really looks like she's reading sometimes :p

* A big first is that she has started eating some solids! I had planned on waiting until she turned 6 months old to introduce them, but she had other ideas (such as reaching out and tipping our water glasses into her own mouth...she's a clever bug :)). So far, she's tried honeydew melon (loves it); zucchini (good to chew on for teething); avocado (considers it more of a toy than a food); herbs: cilantro, basil, mint, and oregano (thinks they smell intriguing, and sometimes taste good); carrots (thinks they're alright); beets (could get into them); tempeh (likes it); and cherries (loves them). I think we'll try oatmeal this weekend, or maybe sweet potato.

* She has always noticed the pets, but only lately has she realized what wonderful textures and pulling opportunities their fur provides. She especially likes reaching out to grab them while she's sitting on her potty, for some reason. I have to mediate carefully, though, or the animals would get upset.

* Just today I gave her a flashlight, and it was so cool seeing her play with it, because you could see it dawning on her that she was controlling the patterns of light!

* Oh, I also started introducing sign language to her, mostly so she can more easily communicate to us when she needs to eat or potty, but if she's really into it, it could be really cool to see her develop the ASL language. At the rate we're going, her first word's gonna be "oopie" (our word for going to the bathroom) because we're really drilling that one. I have to have some embarrassing fodder for when she starts dating :p

* She's just really bright in general, and she has the most exuberant personality. I'm not sure how to convey it really, but it's in her eyes. She just looks at you like she "knows." We're in for an interesting rest of our lives! ;)

So without further ado (I've already given plenty of ado!), heeeeeeere's Meri!
(Sorry for the photo-dump, by the way; I'm obviously not very good at organizing photos :p)



Going for a ride in her carrier:


Practicing sitting in her cuuuuuute overalls:






 Sampling some cilantro from the herb garden:


Wearing a vampire goatee after eating beets for the first time:

I was doing something wrong here to deserve this look, I'm sure :P

And this one:
Rosy cheeks:

Beautiful big blue eyes:



 A literary critic:

Cherry Meri!








Wearing a bib baby tabard from Uncle Jeff, the librarian :)